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One Man, One Knife, Two Broken Lives , And We’re Still Waiting for Justice for Fems

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This is one of those stories that hits you in the chest and doesn't let go.
A young girl named Fems, someone who sells thrifted clothes, posts about protein powder, tries to build something for herself online  got a message about a modeling gig. ₦140,000. Sounded real. 


She went with her friend, because who goes alone to something like that? They met the guy in Lagos, Ajao Estate area, around February 8. At first it probably felt normal. Then everything turned.
He pulled a knife. Tied them up. Threatened to kill them. And then he raped both of them. Took their phones, went through their private stuff, airdropped their photos and videos to himself. Imagine the terror. Imagine trying to process that while still breathing, still alive, but feeling like part of you died right there.
She posted about it on TikTok, crying, voice shaking, warning every other girl out there. You can hear the pain in every word. And now the internet is full of people saying #JusticeForFems, sharing her video, angry, heartbroken, demanding the guy be found and made to answer.
This isn't just "another case. 
It's evil. Pure, calculated evil. 
Someone saw two young women trying to make money, chasing a little opportunity in this hard economy, and decided to turn that hope into a weapon. How do you sleep after doing something like that to another human being? How?
My heart is heavy reading this. I keep thinking about her,  how she's probably replaying it every second, how unsafe the world must feel now, how brave she is for speaking anyway. 
And her friend too. 
They're carrying something no one should ever have to carry alone.
To every young girl scrolling right now, especially the ones hustling, posting, modeling, selling, dreaming: please hear me. Verify everything. Double-check who you're meeting. Never go alone, take someone you trust, or at least tell three people exactly where you're going and when. Share your live location. If it feels even slightly off, leave. 


Your safety is worth more than any gig, any money, any follow. These predators count on us being eager, on us needing the opportunity. Don't let them win that way.
To everyone else: don't just feel bad and scroll past. 
Share her story if you can. Tag the Lagos police if there's an official handle. Support organizations that help survivors Mirabel Centre, the Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency in Lagos, places like that. 

If you have information, say something anonymously. And if you're a guy reading this, talk to your brothers, your friends. Call out the nonsense when you hear it. We all have to make it harder for men like this to move freely.
Fems and her friend deserve justice. Not "some day," not "maybe." Now. The police need to move fast, arrest this man, and let the courts do what they're supposed to do. No slap on the wrist. No quiet settlement. Real consequences.

I'm just sitting here feeling sick about it all. But mostly I'm feeling for her. I hope she's surrounded by love right now. I hope she knows thousands of us are angry on her behalf and won't forget.

Justice for Fems. Justice for her friend. And protection for every girl who just wants to live and chase her own small dreams without fear.

If you're in pain from something like this, please reach out to someone. You're not alone.

This remains a situation of A Knife, a Promise, and a Nightmare She’ll Never Forget and remember that She Posted Crying on TikTok So No Other Girl Has To Go Through This.

From Comr. Abdul-kareem Yusuf Opeyemi (Irreducible Eminent)

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